The first look creates an instant moment full of raw emotions. We at Big Day Productions have had the honour of capturing thousands of first looks all over the UK, making it one of the most touching wedding photography moments.

Planning a romantic first look is meant to add a deeply personal and meaningful emotion to your wedding story. If you are ready to create an unforgettable wedding photography moment, we’ve created this guide to show you how to do that.

What Is a Wedding First Look?

Traditionally, couples wait to see each other for the first time as they walk down the aisle. A “first look” is a modern alternative where you meet privately before the ceremony. This is a way to share an intimate moment just between the two of you, avoiding the awkwardness of having the eyes of guests on you.

Many British couples now embrace this tradition because it offers:

  • A private moment to connect and calm nerves.
  • Extra time for photos when emotions are fresh and genuine.
  • Photographers capture more relaxed, natural images.
  • The chance to savour a quiet pause before the whirlwind of the day.

Where Should You Have Your First Look?

Selecting the right spot will make your wedding first look feel private, romantic, and offer the possibility for gorgeous photos and videos. Based on our experience, here are some fantastic first look locations:

  • The natural beauty of secluded Gardens at country estates like those in Surrey or the Lake District.
  • Historic Courtyards in Oxford or York, blending charming architecture with atmospheric lighting.
  • Capture urban romance with a view from city rooftops or quiet parks in London or Manchester.
  • Use the natural drama of coastal cliffs and beaches from Cornwall to the Scottish Highlands.

How to Make the Moment Truly Romantic?

Couples can create their first look as an emotional moment through small touches that make it unforgettable. Here’s what you can do to amp up the romance:

  • Build the anticipation through the “back to back” reveal, where you stand close but don’t yet see each other, holding hands or exchanging whispered words before the big moment.
  • Speak your personal vows quietly to each other or exchange a letter just before you see one another.
  • Keep things natural and let your emotions flow, meaning if tears come, embrace them. Our photographers specialise in catching those genuine reactions.
  • The soft lighting of early morning or late afternoon light works wonders for those intimate photos.
  • You may want to play your song softly during the reveal or have it on hand for your video.

What to Wear and When to Plan Your First Look?

While the obvious answer is your wedding attire, think about timing and logistics to avoid the stress:

  • Plan your first look ideally 30–60 minutes before the ceremony. This allows time for photos without making your guests wait too long.
  • Coordinate with your photographer and videographer to capture romantic wedding photos and videos.
  • Dress as you please at the ceremony, but consider wearing comfortable shoes if walking is involved.
  • Bring tissues or handkerchiefs because emotions can be powerful.

Wedding First Look Tips

One couple in Devon shared, “Our first look in the garden was the calmest moment of the whole day. Big Day Productions captured every tear and smile beautifully. It truly felt like the world stood still just for us.”

Another in Manchester said, “We never anticipated how emotional seeing each other early would be. The photos and video we got took us right back there every time.”

Here are some tips to have that unforgettable first look that these couples had:

  • Practice for a few moments beforehand to ease nerves.
  • Bring along a favourite perfume or scent to evoke memories later.
  • Share your feelings honestly with your photographer to guide the shoot naturally.
  • Trust your photographer/videographer team because they’ve done this hundreds of times and know how to make magic happen.

How Does Big Day Productions Help You Create Perfect First Look Moments?

Our network of trusted photographers and videographers across the UK shares a unified shooting style that is natural, personal, and always unobtrusive. Here’s how we make your first look memorable:

  • We start by connecting with you before the day to understand your story and style.
  • On the day, we guide you gently and help you relax, so your reactions feel authentic.
  • Our photographers and videographers work seamlessly together to capture every angle without intruding on your moment.
  • After the wedding, enjoy beautifully edited photos and videos that tell your first look story with emotion and artistry.

FAQs

1. Will a first look ruin the surprise of walking down the aisle?

Not at all. Many couples find their aisle walk even more emotional because they’ve had a private moment to settle their nerves and connect during the first look.

2. Can we include our wedding party in the first look?

Most couples prefer the first look to be just the two of them for intimacy, but small variations like including parents or siblings can be arranged if desired.

3. How long does a first look session usually last?

Between 20 and 45 minutes, usually, depending on the number of shots and locations involved.

4. What if it’s raining or the weather turns?

BDP photographers are pros at adapting. We scout indoor locations at your venue or nearby spots to keep the magic going, rain or shine.

5. Do we get both photos and videos of the first look?

Yes. Our curated network offers combined photography and videography for full coverage and storytelling.

Conclusion

At Big Day Productions, we ensure your first look blends romance, intimacy, and artistry into one unforgettable moment. You’ll get consistent, professional service across the UK, whether you’re tying the knot in a country manor, a stylish city venue, or a quiet vineyard. Our personal, natural style and decades of experience ensure that your first look photos and videos capture the real, unfiltered joy that makes your day so special.

Make your first look a cherished memory you’ll revisit with love for years. Contact Big Day Productions today to start planning your romantic first look and everything else that will make your wedding day perfect.